This Home Is Inspired by My Mum: The Ultimate Love Letter to the Woman Who Shaped Me
There’s a certain magic that happens when a home reflects the essence of someone who means the world to you. For me, that someone is my mum. As I embarked on the journey of creating my perfect space, it quickly became clear that this wasn’t just about choosing furniture or picking a paint color—it was about honoring the woman who taught me what it means to truly love and create a welcoming, nurturing environment.
This home is not just a collection of rooms; it's a love letter to my mum, a tribute to the values, comfort, and joy she brought into my life. It’s a space that carries pieces of her soul, her grace, and the wisdom she's passed down over the years. Here's a glimpse into how I infused every corner of this home with elements inspired by the woman who shaped me.
A Warm Welcome: The Heart of the Home
When I think of my mum, the first thing that comes to mind is her ability to make everyone feel welcome. No matter the time of day or the state of the house, mum always had a way of making visitors feel like they belonged. It was never about perfection; it was about warmth.
In my home, the entryway serves as the first nod to this feeling of inclusion. I filled it with soft, inviting hues, comfortable furniture, and personal touches like family photos and hand-made trinkets, just like mum’s house always had. A lush indoor plant stands by the door, symbolic of the nurturing environment she created for me, always encouraging growth, love, and a sense of belonging.
The Kitchen: A Place of Connection
The kitchen has always been the heart of my mum’s home, where we laughed, cooked, and shared stories over countless meals. It’s where life happens—where we gather, make memories, and enjoy simple pleasures.
For me, the kitchen had to be a space that invited the same sense of connection. I carefully chose warm wood tones, rich textures, and an open layout to mirror mum’s homey, inviting kitchen. The space is full of family heirlooms, like my mum’s old recipe box, and items that remind me of her—vintage teacups, hand-painted plates, and cookware passed down through generations.
The open shelves are a perfect place to display the mugs and plates we used as kids, each one holding a memory of those late-night chats or impromptu cooking lessons. In this space, I feel close to her—her love of good food, her patience in teaching me how to cook, and the importance of family around the dinner table.
The Living Room: A Cozy Reflection of Mum's Warmth
Mum always knew how to make a space feel cozy. The living room was where we sat together, wrapped in blankets, sharing stories and dreams. The living room in my home is a reflection of that same comfort. Soft, plush furniture in neutral tones invites you to relax and sink into the moment.
There are plenty of family photos on the walls—snapshots of childhood memories, holidays, and milestones. These photos not only document our journey together, but they also remind me of her constant love and encouragement. The mix of textures in the room, from velvety cushions to woven throws, creates a space that feels both comforting and inviting—just like mum’s embrace.
The Bedroom: A Sanctuary of Peace
For mum, the bedroom was always her sanctuary—a space for rest, self-care, and reflection. It was where she found peace at the end of a long day and where she recharged her energy to take on the next one. I wanted my bedroom to evoke the same sense of serenity, a quiet retreat where I could rest and reflect.
I chose soothing colours like soft whites, muted blues, and earthy tones to create a tranquil atmosphere. The bed, with its cozy linens and fluffy pillows, is a haven for relaxation. The artwork on the walls was carefully selected, each piece representing the strength, elegance, and grace my mum embodies.
Just like she did for me, I created a space that fosters a deep sense of comfort, reminding me that peace begins at home.
The Garden: Nurtured by Love
My mum’s garden has always been a source of joy. She has a natural green thumb, and the way she tended to her plants, nurturing them to life, taught me valuable lessons about care, patience, and growth. In my own home, the garden is an extension of that love and care.
I spent time designing a small garden where I could plant flowers and herbs, just like we used to do together. It’s filled with vibrant blooms, each one symbolising the beauty she cultivated in me and in the world around her. The scent of fresh herbs and flowers that fill the air each time I step outside is a constant reminder of the lessons she taught me about slowing down, appreciating nature, and taking time to nurture what truly matters.
The Office: Where Mum’s Wisdom Lives On
Mum has always been a guiding force in my life, offering wisdom, advice, and unwavering support. She has this incredible way of making me believe in myself, even when I doubted my abilities. For my home office, I created a space that celebrates this influence—one that fosters focus, creativity, and inspiration.
The shelves are filled with books—some of mum’s favourites, some that I’ve gathered over the years, all full of knowledge and inspiration. The desk is simple but purposeful, just like mum’s work ethic. It’s a space that encourages productivity but also invites reflection, a reminder to take a step back and appreciate how far I've come, thanks to her unwavering belief in me.
The Final Touch: Personal Items That Tell a Story
Throughout the home, I sprinkled personal items that tell the story of our relationship. There are handwritten letters from mum tucked away in a drawer, a few of her old scarves draped over a chair, and a collection of jewellry that she passed down to me. These little treasures carry pieces of her, filling the home with memories and love.
One of the most meaningful touches is the vintage mirror she gave me when I moved out of her home. Every time I look into it, I’m reminded of how she always saw the best in me, even when I struggled to see it myself.
A Home Full of Love
This home is more than just a physical space—it is a tribute to my mum. It’s a constant reminder of her love, guidance, and the warmth she brought into my life. From the kitchen to the bedroom, the garden to the office, every corner of this home carries a piece of her heart.
Building this home has been an act of love, an ongoing reminder of the deep connection between a mother and child. It’s my way of saying “thank you” for all the sacrifices, the lessons, and the endless love that has shaped me into who I am today.
So, mum, this home is for you. It’s the ultimate love letter, a celebration of the incredible woman who gave me everything I need to create a life filled with love, warmth, and joy.